Extremely Loud, Incredibly Close

To say this is a sad movie is like saying it’s cold in Antarctica.  Duh, you know that it’s cold in Antarctica.  But what you don’t know until you’ve been there is just how cold.  So yeah, it’s a very sad movie.    I read the book so I was expecting this.  The movie is getting a lot of bad reviews.  I think people are being overly harsh.  I think 9/11 is a tough topic and will remain so for many years to come.  I saw this movie with my mom and she said she never really thought about how much loss and pain there was in New York following the WTC attacks–just how many people were affected.  Maybe it’s ok for us to being to look at that emotional rawness.  My one major criticism is the use of the “falling man” imagery.  And they use it a lot.  When you see the falling man, it takes you out of the movie experience and puts you into your own 9/11 experience.  Also maybe not a bad thing, but for me each time I saw the falling man I felt sick.  Max von Sydow is nominated for Supporting Actor.  I’m not sure there aren’t other actor who should be in his slot.  Nothing against him or his performance but I don’t feel like he hit it out of the park.   However the kid that plays Oskar–Thomas Horn, was fantastic.  I doubt many people who read this (all three of you) will put this on your Must See list.  I’d recommend the book.  The book is really a great adventure story.  I think the movie had to skip a lot of that, cause that what adaptation do.  This is the 12th movie I have seen this year.

And The Nominees Are . . .

Well, you can go here to see the official list. 

Here are the films I will do my best to watch before Feb 26th.  This list excludes nominees for foreign films, documentaries, animated and shorts.  I have to draw a line somewhere.

The Adventures of Tintin

Albert Nobbs

Anonymous

The Artist

Beginners (check)

A Better Life

Bridesmaids (check)

The Descendants (check)

Drive (check)

Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close (check)

The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo (check)

Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows Part 2 (check)

The Help (check)

Hugo

The Ides of March (check)

The Iron Lady

Jane Eyre (check)

Margin Call

Midnight in Paris (check)

Moneyball (check)

The Muppets

My Week with Marilyn

Real Steel

Rise of the Planet of the Apes

A Separation

Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy (check)

Transformers: Dark of the Moon

The Tree of Life

W.E.

War Horse (check)

Warrior

Better get to it!

So far in 2012

ok, so this is a list of movies I have watched so far this year:

Martha Marcy May Marlene

Sleeping Beauty

War Horse

Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy

Newlyweds

Bellflower

The Descendants

Leap Year (don’t judge me)

The Company Men

I Am Number Four

Rampart

For the rest of the year I will try to write something each time I watch a movie.  We will see how that goes. 

This may just become a movie blog

In my quest to see all the potential Oscar films I saw The Descendants yesterday.  That movie wrecked me.  Completley wrecked me in a way that I haven’t been wrecked by a movie in a long, long time. [as a reminder of why in the world I would watch a movie that makes me cry recall this post.] So as a way to reset, I went home and watched Bellflower which is not an Oscar film but randomly came from Netflix.  I had no idea what to expect from it.  Honestly I really didn’t know what it was about.  It is also a very upsetting film but I really liked it.    Part of what made me like it so much was the story of making Bellflower which reminds me so much of all my friends who passionately make movies.  But I also like the concept of the movie which is pretty well explianed in this trailer.

Since I really haven’t been writing very much I thought this year I would write something about every movie I watch.  I haven’t even begun that–but hey, we are only half way through the first month of the year so maybe I will keep that promise.  We’ll see.

Musical Memory Lane

NPR is running a series right now called Winter Songs where writers reminisce about a winter from their past and the music that plays along with those memories.   It got me thinking about my own winters and the year that stood out for me was 1993.  That winter I moved from Raleigh to Greensboro and began my college experience in earnest.  I had for couple of years been taking classes, first at NC State part-time then full time at the Community College.  In 1993 I was accepted to UNC-Greensboro and I moved there in December of that year.  I think of that year as my first year of real independence.  I didn’t have a boyfriend.  I got my first tattoo that year.  When I moved to Greensboro I was living in a different city from my parents.  The music I listened to at that time reflects the freedom I was feeling.  I was discovering music on my own, free from the influence of a boyfriend.

When I moved to Greensboro I got a time slot on the college radio station so I really had time to express my own tastes.  I remember having a debate with my roommate’s brother—he was a classic rock fan.  I told him that I had heard all those songs way too many times.  There was nothing wrong with classic rock but I craved something new.  To prove my point I said that I could sing all the words to any song that came on the radio station he always listened to.  I never lost.  So what was I listening to?  If you listen to Spotify you can hear my playlist—1993.  Otherwise these were the cds I played over and over:

 

 

 

 

A hopefully brief pause

Anyone reading my blog (all 2 of you) may have noticed that my “Currently Reading” selection has changed after many many months of the Game of Thrones cover occupying that space.  Since last summer I have been deeply entrenched in the Song of Fire and Ice series by George RR Martin.  3,880 pages later I have just finished the fifth book of the series.  The only reason I am stopping is because dear old GRRM hasn’t written Book 6 yet.    Lori, Julia, and Heather (and maybe Shane too?) have been with me on this journey and they all warned me that there is an empty place when you read the last page.  I feel like I am missing friends. And I will be missing them for a long while as GRRM takes 4-5 years between books.  So I have a long wait.  Fortunately I have the HBO series to ease my loneliness (season 2 starts in April).    Until then I thought we could look back via oft spoken phrases:

  • When you play the game of thrones, you win or you die.
  • What is dead may never die, but rises again, harder and stronger.
  • The things I do for love
  • You know nothing, Jon Snow
  • Stick them with the pointy end.
  • Valar morghulis.
  • A Lannister always pays his debts.
  • Fear cuts deeper than swords.
  • Words are wind.
  • Winter is coming.

Please feel free to add what I have forgotten.  If you haven’t read the books you are really missing out.

Early Oscar Chatter

 With the end of the year fast approaching it’s time to start thinking about which movie might make it to the Oscar Nomination list.  Ok, maybe it’s just me.  I have started already making lists and watching movies.  Here is a comprehensive “might be” list.  As usual I am not considering Best Song, Docs, Shorts or Foreign Films.  I have BOLDED movies I have already managed to see.  I am certain many of these will fall of the list before February but it’s good to have an early guide.  Oh and I highly recommend Super 8 if you haven’t seen it.  Really very good.50/50
A Dangerous Method
Albert Nobbs
Anonymous
Arthur Christmas
Beginners
Bridesmaids
Captain America: The First Avenger
Carnage
Cars 2
Coriolanus
Drive
Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close
Gnomeo & Juliet
Green Lantern
Happy Feet 2
Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows: Part 2
Hugo
In The Land of Blood and Honey
J. Edgar
Jane Eyre
Kung Fu Panda 2
Margin Call
Martha Marcy May Marlene
Melancholia
Midnight in Paris
Mission: Impossible – Ghost Protocol
Moneyball
My Week With Marilyn
Pirates of the Caribbean: On Stranger Tides
Puss in Boots
Rampart
Rango
Rio
Rise of the Planet of the Apes
Shame
Super 8
Take Shelter
The Adventures of Tintin
The Artist
The Descendants
The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo
The Help
The Ides of March
The Iron Lady
The Lady
The Muppets
The Skin I Live In
The Tree of Life
Thor
Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy
Transformers: Dark Side of the Moon
Tyrannosaur
W.E.
War Horse
Warrior
We Bought a Zoo
We Need To Talk About Kevin
Win Win
Winnie the Pooh
Young Adult

Happy Birthday To Me!

For those of you who don’t know–I am going to London for my birthday!  This fulfills a life long dream of being in London for Guy Fawkes Night/my bday!  I’m looking forwards to sharing pictures and stories when I get back.  Not that I have been doing all that much sharing lately.  Who knows, maybe I can remedy that soon!

xoxoxo

New Music Discoveries

If I were a rich man . . . I would buy a whole bunch of new cds.  In the meantime I can share a couple new discoveries with you.

Dogcatcher–hard to describe.  Big sound yet cool and quiet.  Seems great for these soon to come cool Fall mornings.  Ceheck them out here http://dogcatcherband.com/music/

The David Mayfield Parade–If you like the Avett Brothers and Gillian Welsh you will like them.

 

Tiny Insight

Perhaps one of the things people find most strange about me (there is so much to chose from) is that I love to watch sad movies.  it goes along with reading sad books and sitting in an open window during a heavy rain.  Likely strolling through a cemetery fits in here too.  I’ve been called dark, melancholy, eccentric.  I think all those things are compliments though I am sure they were not meant as such.

I once spent a masochistic weekend with The Road.  I started reading the book on Friday night, finished Sunday afternoon in time to see the matinee of the movie.  It was a grey and rainy weekend, thank the gods.  Had it been sunny I would have felt betrayed.

Yesterday I was listening to All Things Considered on my way home from work.  There was a story about an artist I have never heard of who made a movie about another artist I never heard of.  Yet Joann Sfar managed to capture my appreciation for the bleak.  He said:

“I’m so grateful when a beautiful thing try to teach me nothing,” he offers, almost as a weary provocation of the sort Gainsbourg might have uttered. “And it never occurs. You know sometimes movies seem to be like a medicine. … I wish to be sad and I wish to be lost, and I desperately don’t wish to be taught anything.”

I think Sfar and Gainsbourg are worth getting to know.

Comics Star Joann Sfar, Capturing ‘A Heroic Life’